Class,
So you know, as I've stated already, EVERY dog will have its Point of Contention (where it refuses to do the retrieve work) and EVERY student will hit their own, "This isn't worth the effort, I quit!" point. Happens in every Retrieve Class. I remember wanting to quit with Sugar at Lesson 2 when he WOULD NOT OPEN HIS MOUTH. Margot corrected him, in a way I refuse to do with ANY dog, and he opened his mouth. We got through Lesson 2 as that was Sugar's Point of Contention. When we got to the "Hold" part of the retrieve training process, I was the one that wanted to quit as it was WAY harder than I thought it should be.
All of this is being shared with you so each of you recognize the process to train an inexperienced handler with their FC trained dog is a journey, not a destination. It is what happens between the handler and their dog that makes this training process so time consuming as well as mentally stressful. It is also this training PROCESS (meaning NOT automatic nor easy nor simple), that creates the handler and their dog into a working team.
Rarely is this retrieve training process linear, predictable
and ever upward.
Instead, it often looks and feels like this:
As long as you hang WITH me, there is always a way for a handler and their dog to succeed, just it doesn't look like the same journey for any team. So, Alice/Mabel - breathe and know we'll get the two of you through where you are stuck right now. And Chris/Sarah - breathe and know that I'll get the two of you through where you are stuck right now, get you working on Sarah's right side, and experience success. I've never had a single Retrieve Class were all the teams got through each lesson at the same time, not one time. Each team, handler and their dog, work at their own level of understanding and newly acquired skills and we build on that with each EXAM.
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| So, you may be feeling like this#$#! |
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Or you may be feeling like this.
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However you are feeling, I understand as I've been there too, got the t-shirts to prove it, and went on to success. The best is yet to come, I promise. Breathe.
Roxanne